Eat Pray Run DC

Running hard, eating well and living a grace-filled life in Washington D.C.

Searching for something?

  • Start Here!
    • Featured In…
    • 30 before 30 List!
    • My Favorite Things
    • Wedding
  • Eat!
  • Run
  • Blogging 101
    • How to Start a Blog
  • Contact Me!
    • Disclosure and Privacy Policy

Two months til 30!

August 16, 2012 By: project30in20127 Comments

In exactly two months, I will turn 30. Apparently there are all kinds of things one is supposed to have learned by this age. While I’m not there quite yet, I have learned a few things over the years (and by years, I mean by reflecting while writing this blog). A few weeks after I started blogging, I began to pay attention to statistics on who exactly was reading this thing. I started noticing that my most popular posts were the ones where I revealed personal information. When I discussed my new job or when I talked about my new relationship, it resonated with people. That makes sense because most of the folks who read this are people I have a personal relationship with. But it also makes sense because people want to connect. They want to be involved in your world.

So, what else have I learned? I’ve learned that sometimes it doesn’t look like you thought it would look like. This is true in a variety of things. For example, I was recently sharing with a couple girlfriends about how when my boyfriend asked me out on a date, it didn’t look like I expected. My first instinct was to say “no” because it didn’t look like I thought it would. What a mistake that would’ve been. I’m so grateful that I didn’t let my preconceived notions about “how it should be” keep me from this wonderful relationship. Another thing that certainly doesn’t look how I thought it would is my career. In the five short years since law school, I’ve had a few different jobs, gone back to school for an LL.M. and have finally landed in a job that I am passionate about and challenged by. I could not have guessed where I’d end up. And I can’t begin to guess where I’ll be in another five years. But I’m so glad I’m here.

The importance of surrounding yourself with people who will speak into your life is something that I never really thought about until fairly recently. What do I mean by “speak into your life?” Well, I mean people who will not only support you but will believe in you and will challenge you to become a better person. I’m blessed in that I have a wonderful network of people doing just that.

Finally, I’ve learned that at a certain point, you have to grow up, stop taking your family for granted and appreciate them for who they are. I recently attended my grandfather’s 85th birthday celebration and it was humbling to see so many people celebrating his life and how he has impacted them. It also reminded me that I need to be better about being intentional in connecting with my family.

As I move closer to the big birthday and continue to learn about life, learn about myself and the world, I’m excited to see what the next decade of life has in store for me.

 


Comments

  1. Amanda says

    August 16, 2012 at 11:48 am

    I like the personal tidbits because we never run into each other! 🙂

    This resonates with me:

    “Finally, I’ve learned that at a certain point, you have to grow up, stop taking your family for granted and appreciate them for who they are.”

    And I would add, realize that you cannot (and arguably should not want to) change them. Um, I passed 30 a few years ago, so kudos to you for figuring this out much sooner than I did!

    Reply
    • project30in2012 says

      August 16, 2012 at 12:18 pm

      Thanks Amanda! It was great running into you guys last week and hopefully it’ll happen more often! And yes to your comment about changing family (or friends or anyone, really). So, so true.

      Reply
  2. Life & Sunshine says

    August 16, 2012 at 12:06 pm

    Just turned thirty this year as well and I myself would love to see where I will be in five years..BUT. Thank you for reminding me to be “glad I’m here”, five years will be here in no time and to live in the moment, yet care about your future is a great motto!

    Reply
    • project30in2012 says

      August 16, 2012 at 12:19 pm

      Thanks so much for your comment! I’m looking forward to checking out your blog 🙂 Living in the moment is hard, but so crucial because before you know it, the moment is gone.

      Reply
  3. Liza says

    August 16, 2012 at 1:02 pm

    I love this! It’s so true. As I watch everyone else in their 30’s, 40’s and up, I keep wondering what makes their relationship better, or what what our generation is lacking. Obviously you’re right, we’re just not quite there yet. We’re also so set on the future that we don’t take the time to settle down for the *now for awhile and enjoy the relationships we have.
    I will definitely keep this advice in mind! Hopefully you will accomplish everything on your list! 🙂

    Reply
    • project30in2012 says

      August 16, 2012 at 2:02 pm

      Thanks Liza 🙂 I think I’ll do an inventory on where I am with THE List soon, so I can make sure I’m on track!

      Reply
      • Liza says

        August 17, 2012 at 9:02 am

        🙂

        Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

CommentLuv badgeShow more posts

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Hi, there! I’m Courtney

Welcome to Eat Pray Run DC - I'm passionate about food, running, Jesus, my dog and bacon. Not necessarily in that order. Read More…

Join the Eat Pray Run DC Community & Get Your FREE Copy of Blogging 101!

Follow

Tags

berlin marathon blogger tips blogger tip tuesday blogging blog stats chicago marathon christmas Church cooking dc dinner eat exercise faith fitness food friday five friends gift guide giveaway goals half marathon healthy healthy-living holiday holidays marathon marathon training oiselle pure barre race races recipe recipes relationships richmond marathon run running sweat pink training travel wedding wedding planning wedding wednesday workouts

Categories

Copyright © 2022 · Modern Blogger Pro Theme By, Pretty Darn Cute Design