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What Would You Do?

April 5, 2012 By: project30in20123 Comments

About a week ago, as I was at the CVS by the Georgia Avenue / Petworth metro station, I witnessed two teenage boys stuff candy and packaged cupcakes, etc in their pockets. I promptly told a store employee. The employee seemed somewhat lackadaisical about my report, but did tell someone up front to watch the boys. Later that evening, over drinks after our soccer match, I was recounting the story and once I mentioned I ratted the kids out, I immediately got a quizzical look and was asked “where did you grow up?”

That response made me think about morals, values and social responsibility. How does one affect the other? The gentleman (someone I had just met) who asked where I was from explained to me that he had grown up overseas and he learned early on the importance of looking the other way. He said that there was no way he would’ve told the store clerk about the boys for fear of retribution. This sparked a conversation about what everyone standing nearby would have done.

Do we have a responsibility to look after others as if we knew them? Was I way out of line telling the clerk that the boys had stolen? In my mind, the answers to those questions are, respectively, yes and no. I think about how I grew up — my father was military and we moved every few years. However, my parents were lucky enough to find a group of friends who were similar in age, and also had young children. As our families traveled the country, we somehow usually ended up living in the same cities. This group of military families became like extended family, since we were all so far away from our “real” extended families. Anyways, my point is that growing up in this community, I knew that if I did something wrong and one of the adults in our circle saw it, it was the same as my parents witnessing it. I was ratted out more than once (not that I ever did anything wrong — dream child!) and to be honest, it was for my own good. I know that most folks don’t live in communities like that anymore, but is it totally crazy to think that we could begin to return to some of those same ideals?

If someone saw my (hypothetical) child doing something wrong, I’d appreciate a heads up. Especially for something as potentially serious as theft. As a parent, I’d want to know.

So, what would you have done?


Comments

  1. Jake says

    April 5, 2012 at 12:51 pm

    You know they probably took the last box of Dots and it sent her into a rage!

    All kidding aside, I don’t think it has to do with where you grew up (geographically). Like you, I was raised in a community where all the neighborhood adults were collectively our parents. They wouldn’t think twice about making sure we would learn those life lessons and maintain our moral compass, even if it meant a grounding from our parents.

    I can’t say what I would have done because everyone acts differently in the moment, but I’d like to think I would say something (and then be pretty disappointed/not surprised when the CVS clerk didn’t do anything about it).

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    • project30in2012 says

      April 5, 2012 at 1:32 pm

      DOTS! Yum! But yeah, I bet you would have done the same thing, Jake. I thought for a brief second about speaking directly to the kids, but then decided that telling the CVS employee was the better choice.

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  2. Amy says

    April 10, 2012 at 1:26 pm

    I am proud of you for doing that. While I understand why someone might be nervous to say something for fear of retribution, it is the right thing to be moral and tell someone about what you saw. I might be one of those people living in fear of saying something to the individuals doing the stealing but I would have told the clerk if I was 100% sure of what I saw, just as you did! 🙂 Good girl! ha-ha!!

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